Wednesday, October 8, 2008

How To Do Male G Spot Massage

The male g spot is located in the anus about 1 inch in on the upper surface of the anus. Another name for the anal male g spot is the prostate.

The anal male g spot is like the womans g spot. Both can give deep sexual and sensual pleasure. To find the anal male g spot you need to go into the anus about 1 inch. One must use a lot of lubrication and relax the anal muscles before insertion.

Here is some tips for you to touch your prostate

Using your fingers to explore your body is usually the best choice for men who have no prostate experience. You can feel what you’re doing, and fingers are small enough to feel comfortable even in the tightest of spaces. Before you start, you need two items:

  1. Disposable gloves

  1. Lubricant

Latex gloves like those you see at the doctor’s office are your best choice. If you’re allergic to latex, you can find anti-allergenic gloves that serve the same purpose. Don’t buy kitchen gloves or other types of gloves – stick to those made for medical purposes for the best results.

Also stock up on lubricant, like K-Y Jelly. You want to look for a water-based lube that works with latex so your gloves don’t break down as you’re using them. Anything that works with a condom should work for you. Remember, though, your anus doesn’t produce self-lubricant like a girl’s vagina, so use the lubricant generously.

Before you start, wash your hands thoroughly. There are a lot of bacteria and viruses in the world, and getting those germs all up in you is definitely not a good thing. Trim your nails as well so that you don’t scratch yourself, which can easily become infected.

More tips for a prostate self exam in my free newsletter, and prostate pleasure and self prostate massage.

It is best to use latex gloves and put a condom on any anal sex toy if you want to stimulate the male g spot. More information at prostate massage orgasms

Have fun exploring this amazing orgasmic aspect of a mans body.

25 Free Dirty Talking Examples For Hot Sex

I have put together 25 free examples of dirty talking for your enjoyment.

WARNING this page containes 4 letter words and is for 18 years and over please.

I believe dirty talking works because women love sex and deep down are very sexual creatures. They will never admit this to you because they don't want to be called slutty.

Its funny that a man that has multiple parternes is called a stud but a women is called a slut.

What a double standard.

Dirty talking allows you to access this hidden side of a womans lusty sexuality that is usually deep down.

Lets face it, dirty talking is a great way for a man to get into his more masculine energy that women love. Dirty talking takes sex to that more lusty area. An area that is wilder and more orgasmic for some.

Dirty talking for a man allows him to lead the woman. This can enable the woman to relax and let go. This enables her to go to deep orgasmic places in her sexuality.

A women can use dirty talking to praise a mans cock, something that all men love. His cock is an expression of his man hood, so it feels great to be praised.

How about this as a free example of dirty talking.

I just love when I feel your hot cock slowly slide into me. It gives me so much pleasure.

In my free newsletter, I give 25 free examples of dirty talking

A lot of us are a bit scared to try dirty talking. I suggest start off with a little not so dirty talking and move up to more dirty.

Use four letter words like cock and pussy instead of penis or vagina. One wants to come accorss as a bit dangerous and a bit dirty. Fuck is a great word to use for sex.

One can build up to stronger words like slut that some women can react too.

More at  examples of dirty talking

Enjoy dirty talking the next time you fuck!

Amazing Male G Spot Orgasms

Another name for the male g-spot is the prostate. You have probably heard about the importance of prostate health, but though people like to talk about it, not many of usmen actually know about it. Females do not have male g spots, so sometimes these are called the male gland. A prostate is actually half glad, half muscle.


Male g spots are walnut-sized and have three lobes. They surround the urethra, which is why men with prostate problems sometimes have a difficult peaing. The urethra leads from the bladder to the cock, and the prostate is located close too the bladder end of this tube, right in front of the rectum.

That means you can stimulate the prostateanally (and it also means that prostate examinations are done anally. Do not freak out about that that, though. Although many men are at first scared to the thought of massage via the anus, if you relax, it actually feels really good.

Essentially, the prostates job is make fluid that is used in semen, making up about 10-30% of the liquid ejaculated when a man orgasms. The fluid found in the prostate is slightly alkaline, in order to help combat the acidity of a womans pussy, keeping the sperm alive longer and helping to protect the DNA. So, the prostate is directly responsible for healthy babies!

Have you ever made a lady squirt through g-spot stimulation? Yes, it does happen! Essentially, you were stimulating the ladys version of the prostate, and the fluid is similar. The same thing can happen if you stimulate your prostate, you come a little. Most men who have experienced a prostate orgasm have noted indistinguishable reactions to women who have experienced squirting.

For both sexes, these are the most intense, powerful orgasms you will even have. Does that sound good? If you want details on how to stimulate the male g spot I have put together a free newsletter with lots about how to do this at male g spot massage guide. There is a correct way and an incorrect way to stimulate the prostate and I cover tips to have ongoing, prostate orgasms.

See my male g spot massage guide and male g spot diagram to discover how to make orgasmic in giving an sensual massage tonight. More on tantra massage for men

Enjoy your next massage

When I first starting having these types of orgasms I was blown away in the intensity and the pleasure waves.

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Monday, October 6, 2008

Vulva Massage, Penis Massage and Clitoris Massage

A few weeks ago, I was talking to a male friend about clitoris, vulva and penis massage. I was shocked when he told me that the G spot does not exist. This made me a bit sad as it is my experience that when a woman’s G spot is touched, she can have orgasm after orgasm from massageing this area in the yoni or vulva.

Women love a man when they know how to do the G Spot Orgasm massage. It is very simple to learn. I find in amazing that many men do not know how to stimulate the g spot. All men should learn this skill.

The G spot is located within the front wall of the vagina It is usually located half and inch from the entrance. In my experience  can vary with differing women. Many women can have intense orgasmic experiences from g spot stimulation. Some might need to wee before stimulation as massaging this area can cause them to want to go.

I remember just touching with my finger on a lovers G spot with no movement at all and she had waves and waves of deep orgasms. Many women have never had present conscious touch on this sacred spot. Also many women have stored fear and deep negative emotions in this area. When this area is touched in vulva massage and clitoris massage, they feel nothing or it can be painful etc. Some may feel the urge to urinate. Men tend to store similar emotions in the anus area.

There are many ways to massage the penis that most men have never tried. My tips for a great penis massage is to take your time. Slow down some of your strokes and really get in your body and feelings. How about trying a penis massage standing up and dancing. For more information for men see penis massage

Have fun following the above vulva,penis and clitoris massage tips

Saturday, October 4, 2008

7 Foreplay Tips for Couples

fore•play:
- sexual stimulation, usually as a prelude to sexual intercourse,
- mutual sexual fondling prior to sexual intercourse,
- erotic stimulation preceding sexual intercourse

Foreplay is an important part of any woman's sex life. While men enjoy it as well, it tends to be the woman who needs the "pre play" to really get the most out of the experience. We do enjoy a quickie now and again, but the foreplay is what really gets us in the mood and anticipating what is to come.

Foreplay games - any woman knows how important foreplay is, yet so often our man just doesn't seem to get it, no matter how often you say it, or hint at it. So, many of us give up, take what we can get and enjoy it, but feel like something is missing, that it could be so much more. Am I right?

But it doesn't have to be like that. Here are some tips to try to give him ways to give her the foreplay she needs.

For the men:

  1. Make it part of the whole evening, or the whole day. When going out for dinner or a movie, touch her, flirt with her, and treat her like a sexy, irrestible woman throughout the entire evening. Hold her hand, rub your hand along her thigh, nibble her ear, whisper to her how much you want her. Your sexy attentions will add up as the evening progresses and make her feel sexy and wanted.

  2. Write her sexy messages. Send her a text, an email, leave her a little note. Tell her you want her, mention what you want to do to her. She will love those sweet little messages that tell her you are thinking of her throughout the day.

  3. Compliments, compliments, compliments. But they must be sincere! Do you like how she looks? Tell her. Do you like how her hair looks? Tell her. Do those jeans fit her real nice? Tell her! She likes to hear that you like how she looks, how she sounds, how she feels.

  4. Kiss her. Really kiss her. Not just a peck, but a sensual, slow kiss. Put your heart and your lust into it!

For the women:

  1. Tell him what you like. Do you like to be teased? Do you like to be licked? Tell him. Ask him to do it. It is alright to ask, and he may surprise you with how eager he is to try it!

  2. Show him. Guide his hand, his head. Show him how you like to be touched, caressed. Show him how slow or fast and where.

  3. Give him quickies. This doesn't mean it should be a quickie every time you have sex, just don't be afraid to give him quickies sometimes. If you expect him to give you the foreplay and attention you want, then it's only fair that you expect to give him what he wants as well. Not only that, but you may find you love them as well!

Foreplay is a great way to spend some intimate time, enjoying each others bodies and discovering what your partner likes and what turns them on. Put some time and effort into it, and you won't regret it! For more sexy tips and games, or to share your thoughts and tips, visit Romantic Couples Games.com.

The History and the Future of Lingerie

The History and the Future of Lingerie

The garments that we know today as lingerie are relatively new arrivals in the garment industry. Until around the middle of the twentieth century, most women’s undergarments were large, unattractive, and more about function than form.

During the 1960’s women’s undergarments started to change in design and become more feminine. The new garments were much smaller and delicate looking than their former counter parts, such as the girdle or large bulky fitting bras. The newer undergarments had a distinct look of femininity to them which was totally unlike the no-frills garments women had to wear before the new style came out.

These days, attractive lingerie is almost seen as the standard in women’s undergarments. It is true however, that most women will have a more basic undergarment selection they wear everyday and more attractive pieces saved for special occasions, however, even the everyday pieces of today, are far more feminine in appearance than those worn fifty years ago.

What Defines Lingerie?

Since it is so common today, it can be difficult to distinguish between everyday undergarments and lingerie. They can appear so close in resemblance some people find it hard to determine which are lingerie items and those that are just regular everyday undergarments.

Generally lingerie garments are fancier in appearance, made from more refined, expensive materials that are femininely decorated and can be worn as a functional piece as well. However, they are much more decorative than functional.

The everyday underwear for women will often be made of cotton and have wider, more comfortable waistbands. These features make everyday underwear more comfortable and practical for frequent use than that of lingerie, although daily underwear can still be very attractive.

Have the Evolutions of Women’s Undergarments Help Them?

Many people believe that the evolution of undergarments has led to women being more comfortable with their sexuality. The time has past for wearing huge cotton panties and enormous bras and women can look and feel feminine at all times by the choice of undergarments they wear, no matter what outfit they are wearing on the outside.

Women who previously had no confidence in their bodies are now able to enjoy the wonders of push-up bras and panties with padded bottoms to help smooth and enhance their silhouette.

What is the Future of Underwear?

There are people in the fashion industry that believe that somewhere in the near future undergarments will move even more to the outside of the garments, verses remaining on the inside of them. The change has been coming about for some time now and over the past few years; women have been letting their bra straps show while wearing tank tops, something that was completely unheard of in the past.

In future years, will lingerie take the place of more conventional wardrobe pieces? In Europe this new phase has already begun and women tend to shop for sexy lingerie items to complement an outfit, rather then just wear it as an undergarment.

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Get More Sex Tonight WIth A Simple Sexuality Tip

There is a simple tip that can really transform a relationship.

Most men know that men and women are different. Men are more focused on doing things and solving problems  and women are more in their feelings and emotions.

For men to get a lot of sex, there must usually be a good heart connection for the women to want to open sexually.

So, what can the average guy do in this area?

But first some background.

Many of us have been brought up with a lot of criticism from our parents. Most of us have had little compliments during our upbringing. We learn form our early life and continue the same patterns in our relationships. We get into a blame mode and do not take responsibility for our own emotions.

We do not use the power of compliments.

Try this simple exercise with partner. Every day find something of value to compliment in your partner. Maybe it is something simple like taking the garbage bin out. Or how she is dressed.

Make at least 5 compliments each day.

Now, both make this commitment and see if you get closer together. Most women need to feel a emotional connection before making love.

I have more explicit sexuality exercises too hot for this site in Male and Female Sexuality Tips and Advice.

Next make a commitment to remove blame from our relationship. This is a challenging commitment but possible if you work at it. If you partner does something that challenges you, instead of attacking or criticizing, just say what you are feeling inside and see what response you get.

It is possible to transform a relationship that is in blame mode to a more conscious relationship based on praise. These types of relationships are filled with growth and great sex.

Maurice Tate is a qualified sexologist trained at the Advanced Institute of Sexology. To improve your lovemaking go to Free Male and Female Sex Sex Tips

To learn dirty talking go to Free Dirty Talking Newsletter

Free Sex and Sexual Moan Sounds For Hot Passion

The best way to really hot up sex is to just open your mouth and let your turn on moan sex and sexual sounds flow. This does sound easy, but for many of us we have some blocks in doing this.

Due to some embarrassment or sexual shame, most of us do not fully express our energy during sex with Sex and Sexual Moan Sounds.

For men, this blocks the energy in the pelvic region. The energy has only one way to go, out! This causes a lot of men to come too soon and for sex to lack a deeper emotional and heart connection.

So, opening up to sexual sounds allows the throat chakra to open and the energy to move throughout the body,

Most men really love a women that expresses their energy with sexual  and sex moan sounds.

However, most men are mute. Women hate a mute man as much as men hate a mute woman.

Women love to hear their man’s energy as most women are very sensitive to energy.

Guys, WAKE UP and become a MAN that expresses your sexual energy fully.

So the sexual energy is in the sound, so let it fill the room and your lover will respond too.

It can be a real challenge to open up to being more in your sexual sounds during lovemaking. Encourage your partner to be more vocal and then see how the energy flows and how sex can become more powerful.

Feel into what blocks you restricting your erotic potential. The emotional freedom technique can be of help to remove this sexual block.

You can use sexual and sex sounds to transfer energy from one person to another. One can breath in when the other expresses their energy with sounds. AAhhh is a good sound to try in this tantric practice. Set an intention to feel your partners energy. Men can become multi orgasmic from this practice.

I cover more explicit practices in Sexual Ecstasy In 14 Days

Maurice Tate is a qualified sexologist trained at the Advanced Institute of Sexology. To improve your lovemaking go to Free Sexuality Tips for u and to have prostate orgasms, visit prostate massage guide

Great sex is your birthright!

How to Spice Up Your Sex Life with Romantic Couples Games

Most relationships start pretty steamy and exciting. Everything is new, you're getting to know a brand new person, the physical aspect is different, and the anticipation adds to the enjoyment if you take it a bit slow. However, once the relationship has been established, and you've been with the person for a while, the excitement tends to start to die down. You may find yourself going through the motions, doing the same things in the bedroom and elsewhere. You may one day suddenly realize that you've lost that spark, that things have almost become boring.

So what can you do to spark things up, to add some spice and zest back into your sex life? There are, of course, more than one thing you can do. The discussion could go on for quite a while, in fact! So let's cover just one method, that is sure to give you plenty of ideas for creating some excitement and fun in your relationship – sex games for couples!

Sex games come in all shapes, sizes, types, colors and more. Card games, board games, sex positions, foreplay games, food games – and the list goes on! Sex itself has so many aspects and varieties that your options are limitless.

If you want to make your own sex games, you can do this with games you already have, or invent your own completely from scratch! For the first option, take a game you already own, this could be ordinary monopoly, scrabble, or whatever you wish, and simply make new rules for it. Add penalties, and rewards, that include sexy favors, stripping, truth and dare, or whatever seems fun and sexy to you and your partner. Part of the fun is personalizing the game and doing what you want with it. If you would rather make your own game from scratch, then write your own cards, use dice, use the alphabet for body parts (draw a letter and you have to do something to a body part that starts with it), or other creative ideas. Think sexy, think about what would turn you on or get you excited, and build a game around that.

Sex games that other people have created can be just as fun too – especially when you don't know what exactly the whole game entails! There may be some surprising waiting in those cards, or with the roll of the dice, and that is also part of the whole fun. Eden Fantasys is a great source for sex games and you can likely find at least one that will appeal to you. With over 40 sexy games, from card games to board games, and more, you may get ideas just browsing through!

Role play or fantasy games may be your cup of tea, as well. Think of some of your fantasys – what might you like to try with your lover? Would you like to dress up as a maid, fireman, nurse? Would you like your partner to restrain you, seduce you, or be seduced? Blind folds, scarves, handcuffs, sexy food, costumes and other props may be very useful for these games.

Whichever type of games you choose to try, be creative and use your imagination. The game is all about you and your partner, and the intention is to not only add excitement, but bring you closer as well, so it is important that it be personal, and enjoyable for both of you.

For more sex games ideas, check out Michael Webb's 100 Great Sex Games for Couples or visit Romantic Couples Games.com.

Sex: Personal Enhancements

One advantage about the holidays is that it can bring the family as one.  This is also a time when a couple can come closer to each other in the intimate side of the house.  What not a better time to explore your sexual side.You can still get into the holiday spirit by wearing the dress in themed lingerie or outfit to make the mood more fun and exciting. 

Adult sex toys are a way for people to explore their intimate side together. They can be used solo or they can be used with your partner to spice up the sexual relationship. Adult toys come in all different shapes and sizes and have many different uses.One thing that they have similarities is to increase pleasure during love making process.It can be easy to shop for one of these toys that you mean to utilize by yourself.  However, if you are buying for your partner, if you have never bought one, then maybe you might want to bring them along for the purchase.You don’t wish to find something that will fright them away or might be even upset them.

A type of erotic method that can spice up a couple’s sex life is oil and lotion.There are many types that you can choose from.It is good for relaxation and be able to be utilized to put you in the mood for intimacy.These lotion and oils come in various fragrances and some of them are yet safe for use.These come in many different variations.There are oils and lotions for you even if you are picky.

Every time you do attempt out these things, keep in mind to get it slow and listen to your partner.These toys and oils can be apply as a tool for you and your partner to discover the sensual and sexual side of your lives.They can be able to bring closer in your relationship.  By using anal toys, you can find out exactly what your partner wants and what you can do to drive them completely insane with pleasure.  This should be looked at as a way to go above and beyond your normal boundaries in a controlled environment.  Act out your most desired fantasies all with a little help.  All of these items can be found in a local adult store or at any of the varying adult sex shops online.It is better to ask for help if you don’t know what to do since it is your first time.The employees will be able to bring you in the right path without making you feel bashful and unsure of yourself.